We needed a change. My sons haven’t been respectful and I wasn’t setting and sticking to proper boundaries.
I took all our social engagements off the calendar, disallowed screen time, and limited their freedom to within my earshot at all times. It was drastic, but I needed them to focus on simple responsibilities this week. Without the distractions, I was able to hold them accountable to the help I was asking for.
There was a rough start to the week, but they soon settled into a helpful rhythm. Moments of rest were peacefully filled with boardgames and Lego play.
They’re too good at this analog life and it was beautiful to watch them entertain themselves. We rediscovered a couple of their mom’s t-shirts and enjoyed new and familiar boardgames.
A small part of me wanted this week to be painful. I wanted them to fear losing all their privileges.
Instead, they got to see that taking responsibility for small things can bring more peace and fun to our time together.
I’ll take that kind of backfire any day.
