Brotherly Love

I often miss these moments. Sometimes it seems like my sons are always bickering or rolling around on the ground in a scuffle. The truth is that they get along remarkably well for never getting a break from one another.

Although both are performing in Don Quixote, they don’t frequently share the stage. Over months of practice, they have run lines for each other and, subsequently, learned most of the lines.

Before today’s show, they were able to help with last minute run throughs and blocking.

I forget that the lion’s share of their interactions are harmonious. They are often mistaken as twins and are unstoppable when working together.

Don Quixote

We have a full week of Don Quixote performances this week. Isaac has his largest speaking role yet as Sancho Panza in half the productions, and multiple duties as crew in the others. It’s been exciting to watch him grow in his responsibities.

Westen is playing his usual role of scene stealer. I think I caught him wondering when his Hamlet soliloquy would happen.

Always Learning

Sometimes we miss seemingly mundane opportunities to learn.

When my younger son’s bike tire blew out, I took him to the shop to ask for the right parts and guided him through the repair.

Once we were done with replacing the tire and tube, I was inflating the other when I got distracted and blew it too.

We got to practice our new skill and the second repair went quickly.

It was the kind of father-son Saturday activity that happens millions of times every weekend. We don’t always see these moments as special, but it is important to remember that they are.

Dangerous Practice

Big mixed emotions after training last night.

Westen is a tiny kid. At 13, he’s eligible for the adult class, but he doesn’t always look like he belongs. Last night he was partnered with another young practitioner and they were being a little silly during drills. I don’t sweat it too much because they are both serious when it comes to resistance training.

With each round of resistance training, we switch partners. Westen asked the biggest guy in the room for a match. He was at least 200 pounds and over six feet tall. He was also a brand new student and I sensed that he thought it was an odd request.

At some point in the next few minutes, Westen executed a clockwork choke from the back and the new student didn’t tap in time. He lost conciousness and it was a dramatic, and frankly scary, scene of snoring, shaking, and sputtering. He came to quickly, but was clearly dazed and shaken.

Westen was shaken too. He didn’t know how much power he had in his scrawny arms. I’ve never seen him lose his cool or roll with any intention to hurt anyone. He took on all the responsibility for this unfortunate event. He was close to tears.

Although he will learn from this and potentially let up sooner in the future, the responsibility lays on the individual getting choked. This is difficult for a new student who doesn’t think he can be choked out by a child. It is, however, critical in understanding how dangerous this practice is.

Everyone in the room was reminded of the stakes of what we are doing.

Unschool Field Trip

After I posted about Corning Museum of Glass Hot Shop coming to The Delaware Contemporary, a friend organized a field trip to see a demonstration.

Home education involves a lot of do-it-yourself initiative. When we see a possible learning opportunity, we know that the responsibility of making it happen falls on us. Most home educators will end up planning and hosting a trip for other families in their time as educational facilitators. Some of us make a habit of it.

Homemade Halloween

My favorite Halloween as a kid was when my mom made me a Wolverine costume. No one knew who that was in 1988 and I loved it.

I don’t have half the tailoring skills my mom does, but I can’t resist indulging my sons’ unusual ideas.

Westen chose to be a retro Daredevil in yellow and red. He pieced together the whole costume and figured out the horns with my girlfriend, Kristen. I had a lot of fun figuring out how to make his batons functional.

Isaac wanted to be Crossbones from Captain America: Civil War. We had a lot of trouble with the movie version of the gauntlets, so decided to go with the comic book look.

Kristen put together a last-minute Velma and pulled it off beautifully. I went with a shoeless Punisher and grappled with one of my favorite rival heroes.

Game On

A lot of unschooling happens as we play. Learning a new game and unlocking strategies while trying to just make the darn thing work challenges patience and problem solving at high levels.

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Today we played King of New York at Born to Game in Middletown, Delaware. With multiple ways to win and game play that had a few twists, it was the perfect level of difficulty for us.