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The healing journey of a widowed, unschooling badass in Delaware.
My sons are participating in Pages Alive Theater‘s Shakespeare Festival. Both will serve in multiple roles, but two stand out as special.
Westen will be playing Mercutio in his death scene from Romeo and Juliet. With sword fighting, a flurry of double entendres, and a flamboyant exit, Westen was made for this role. He’s seen it on stage and screen and I’m excited to see his interpretation.
Isaac is getting stretched with the “slings and arrows” speech from Hamlet. Certainly the most somber role he has tackled, it will fit well as he becomes a teenager this Spring.
I’m blessed with how much these boys love Shakespeare. As much as they like the stage, nothing motivates them like the Bard.
Julian Assange is rotting in a UK prison without any charges against him. Former CIA director Mike Pompeo discussed assassinating Assange after the agency was embarrassed by published leaks.
Pompeo has not been charged and the United States is seeking to extradite Assange.
In this interview with Tucker Carlson, Stella Assange, Julian’s wife, advocates for his release.
The Kalmar Nyckel Lego Shipbuilding Day is coming and we are busy creating ships and hosting other families who want to join in the fun.
When we opened By Her Hand Tattoos in May of 2023, Kristen brought an amazing core of clients with her from Dover to Wilmington. In Delaware, it is no small feat to convince someone to drive 60 minutes out of their way for anything but french fries on the boardwalk.
We’re slowly building a local reputation and the number of people getting their first tattoos from Kristen has been remarkable.
We haven’t leaned into social media, except for the fact that Instagram is the perfect platform to show off Kristen’s creations.
As our main outlet, it was exciting to approach a milestone like 1,000 followers. At 999, I made a short request on my personal Facebook page to recruit a couple more friends to follow. Most of my FB friends are real and local and it was encouraging to see our number pop up to 1,007 (the banner pic is already archival).
We’re not obsessed with metrics, but we are proud of an organic growth that is bringing us to light in the community.
In this episode of The Tom Woods Show, Michael Gibson discusses his 1517 Fund. He’s part of a growing movement away from the established educational institutions. The Fund aims to support those who aren’t following the institution-to-career path that has become the modern norm.
This project is one of the concrete ways that “renegade students” have of creating value without accreditation.
Anyone can unschool, but it requires a brand new mindset for most people.
Deschooling is an intense process, it’s not about “taking time off” school, it’s about analyzing the innumerable assumptions we carry with us from our past. Yes, school-based assumptions are the initial target, but the process has taken me further back, to a more authentic self than I have known since I was a child.
It’s not comfortable to let go of testing and age-based metrics, but it is so worth it as we live in a world that doesn’t care how well adults do on tests.
This year has been a parade of novice excursions: business ownership, living in a blended family, continuing my white belt journey in jiu-jitsu, and taking on goaltending as a primary position in soccer.
It’s an exciting place to be as I approach my mid 40s. New challenges are constantly arising: fixing a clothes dryer, installing a dishwasher, and various other repairs were other first-times this year.
The process is rarely comfortable and never smooth, but the results compound to make me more capable to face the next obstacle.
We hosted a couple families for Lego building and had wonderful exchanges about our various home education journeys.
Something big is coming.
Mary, my late wife, visited me in a dream last night.
Yeah, Valentine’s Day, cool, thanks for that babe.
I’m a weird dreamer. I will slip deep into a dream state as soon as I close my eyes. I will often shake out of that state just as quickly. This can result in hyper realistic dreams that span more time than the few seconds I’m unconcious.
That’s how Mary chose to visit me. In the dream, I was leaving our tattoo studio and walking down the hall to our jiu-jitsu neighbors at Elevated Studios. She was there, coming out of another doorway to follow me. I didn’t stop, but my eyes were locked on her face. It was different. She has a twin sister, so I thought maybe it wasn’t Mary, but it was. It was different because she had aged. It’s been six years since she passed and it looked like she had been living those years somewhere else.
She wore a grey dress, an old Halloween costume. She smiled at me. She was peaceful and comforting in my confusion. I opened the door to the jiu-jitsu studio to let her in first, but we froze there for a moment, staring at each other.
Then I awoke.
There’s been a tension hanging in me recently. There’s a weight that I can’t properly articulate.
Mary reassured me. She was there at our new venture to let me know that I was safe and in the right place.
I believe deeply in signs and Mary hasn’t visited me this vividly in a long time. There were other small things too, it was an odd day.
This podcast episode fit right in to my intuition that a new chapter in my narrative is close. Jonathan Pageau and Seraphim Hamilton discuss divination from the Old Testament to Artificial Intelligence. The path I desire most is to align my attention as closely with God’s will as I am able.
Mary showed up to let me know she will be with me through every obstacle God offers me to master.