When there isn’t a soccer team, start one. When your groups close up for Lockdown, establish a new one. When fellow homeschoolers won’t respect your values of inclusiveness, go elsewhere and build an alternative community.
This is why Delaware Homeschool Buy/Sell/Free Homeschool Stuff was established. I’m not involved in the founding or administration of this new marketplace, but I am a huge proponent of creating spaces where adults can treat each other as such and trust that commerce can happen without a heavy hand of guidance.
Go check it out. Unload some of those educational materials that have been sitting around. Make some money or bless a family with new resources. Find your next favorite science experiment.