Goodbye, Friend

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I didn’t know José for long. We met when I put together a soccer team for a new indoor league and I wanted a fresh roster.

He was my favorite addition to my soccer family. A strong defender who communicated well and fit my style of play perfectly. Either of us could seemlessly go on an offensive escapade and know the other was there to cover the back. I encourgaed his roaming more than mine because he had the best shot I’ve ever seen on a defender.

There wasn’t much more than that. He smiled at my boys and maybe chatted with them. Westen recognized José’s skill and we talked about him after games.

José was a supportive teammate and asked me how I seemed to gave so much energy on the field. He was just a few months younger than me and I shared my story of tragedy driving me to honor my body.

He had a couple bouts of what seemed like over-exhaustion after two of our games. We kept in touch as I kept bothering him to join me again on the pitch. I thought he was still trying to figure out what was going on when I heard of his passing.

I’m praying for peace for his wife and family. It reminds me to thank God everytime I step into a pair of cleats.

I am grateful I got to meet José. My life is better for having known him.